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Chapter – 3 - Aranya Kandam
Devi Anasuya's advice on Sthree Dharma to Devi Sita
Devi Sita prostrated before
Devi Anasuya, and received her blessings. Devi Anasuya embraced Devi Sita and
offered a seat next to her. She decorated Devi Sita with marvelous ornaments,
and clothes, that remains pure and flawless always. Devi Anasuya described the
Sthreedharma to Devi Sita “Oh! Princess,
listen to me carefully, brother and father are most promising to a girl child,
but they cannot provide happiness and welfare for a long time. Oh! Vaidhedhi, a woman who forgets to serve her husband is immoral. The Dhairya, Dharma, companion, and wife will put into test during the hours of crisis. Oh! Janaki, a woman has
to serve her husband sincerely, even if he is blind, ill, old, sick,
dull-minded, poor, speechless, and arrogant, a woman who disrespects husband would be considered as morally wrong and undergoes hellish torture. The
scriptures strongly recommend that the woman has only one duty, that’s to serve
her husband with mind, deed, and words and she should have devotion at his
feet. There are four types of chaste women
mentioned in scriptures, Veda, and Rishis and Sages. 1) The woman who does not give
space for another man not even in her dreams, is considered as highly virtuous
and highly praised in Veda and Rishis 2) Woman who considers men in the society as her brother, father or
son is known as Madhyamam 3) The Adhama is a woman who follows the duties and responsibilities
to her husband to protect Dharma and for
the welfare of the clan 4) Woman who completely ignore the duties and
responsibilities towards her husband, due to some reasons or fear, and fall in
love with another man is heaved to hell called Raurava for hundreds of Kalpa.
The woman, who takes pleasure in the physical relationship with the stranger, would be considered as a grave sinner. The woman who
sincerely follow the chastity and duties and responsibilities towards her
husband attain Paramamgathi effortlessly, If not she would take several births
and become a widow at a young age.”
Devi Anasuya continues “Oh!
Janaki, a woman is considered as impure by birth, but she attains purity and
Paramagathi by sincerely serving her husband. Devi Tulsi is beloved of Lord
Hari, she is well known for her chastity, the four Vedas eulogizes the glories
of Devi Tulsi. Oh! Sita, listen to me, Srirama is beloved to you, therefore people
contemplate you as well, in this way they will protect their Sthree Dharma, and
I have narrated all these for the welfare of the world.” Devi Janaki
reverentially prostrated before Devi Anasuya. Lord Rama spoke to Sage Atri “Oh!
Mahamune, I shall take leave with your permission, kindly shower your
compassionate grace upon us, I shall take leave to the woods, and I am your
sincere servant, kindly keep showering love upon us.” Sage Atri affectionately
replied “Oh! Rama, Oh! Vathsa, you are righteous and beloved of ascetics and
noble souls, you are relative of distressed people, even Lord Bhrama and Lord
Shiva, Sanakadhis, Paramarththavadhis yearn for your presence, is benevolent to
me. I have understood why Devi Sita refused all the deities and married to you.
She is highly intelligent, who does not want to have incomparable Lord in their
lives? Oh! Swami, how did I ask you to keep exploring the woods? Oh! Antharyami,
Oh! Natha, kindly advise me.” Sage Atri stood before Rama with folded hands,
shed tears of extreme compassion, and fixed his gaze on the lotus-like face of
Rama.
Sage Atri reverentially
looked at the lotus feet of Rama and thought “What kind of austerities and
penance I have undertaken to attain the presence of supreme Lord who is
all-pervasive, beyond Triguna, sense, and mind? It is necessary to undergo
extreme austerities, Japa and Yoga, to attain intense devotion and faith, that’s
the reason Tulsidas constantly sang in praise of supreme Lord Raghuveera and
his glorious legends. Whoever sings in praise of the splendor of Srirama would
get rid of impurities of the mind. It is the source of permanent bliss, whoever
listens to the glorious legends of Sri Rama with devotion would attain the
grace of him. The Kali era is the collection of evilness, there will not be
Dharma, Gnana, Yoga, Tapas, etc. Therefore whoever takes shelter at the lotus
feet of Rama, leaving all other faith would be considered as intelligent.”